People have different opinions about whether being attracted to transgender women makes you gay or not. Basically, it depends on how you understand the word "gay". In my opinion, the two most likely answers to this question will be given by two groups of people: those who like transgender women and those who don't. The simple answer is that if you like a trans woman because you see her as a woman and not a man, then you're not gay. Keep reading and you'll get the answer you want.
You are gay because no matter what they do, they're still men
This is basically the answer given by people who don't like transgender people. Not because they are gay, but because they feel really uncomfortable with a man, and sometimes even gay jokes offend them. Those people would say it's the genes that matter. If you were born with XY chromosomes, you'd be a man for the rest of your life. Period. Even if you look more feminine and sexy than a real girl, you're not a real girl. Therefore, men who are attracted to trans women are gay.
Or maybe you're not gay because you're attracted to women
The second idea is that men who like trans women will never be attracted to men. Trannies are usually very feminine and sexy, often more than genetic girls, because they push it far away. So attraction to transgender women becomes a very direct attraction. In this case, no matter what chromosome she has, no matter what you see on the street, no matter what you see in the bar, she's a beautiful, sexy woman. If you are attracted to her appearance and body shape rather than her gender, then you are not a gay. You know, gay people are gay because they are attracted to people of the same sex and they have desires. If you're simply attracted to a woman, you're not gay.
Who wants a label?
Personally, I consider myself an upright person. I have many beautiful sexy girlfriends, most men are envious of me, I have never had homosexual attitude and behavior. If you pay attention to these labels, they are important. I don't need a label to know what I like and make me happy. Call me gay, call me bisexual, nothing's going to change. If you're going to ask this question, you're the one with the problem, not me.
You don't care about labels? That's a good start. The second step in finding a beautiful transgender girlfriend is to let yourself know what transgender people think, what they think, and what they secretly what from a man. What to know more? The next step: a complete guide to how to have a trans dating with a transgender woman.