Even if you usually have Meghan Markle's poise and social skills, there's something about a first transgender date that will either shut you up completely or turn you into a chatterbox. A simple, natural conversation is ideal, but what can you do if you feel nervous? Here are some tips to help your conversation flow.
Admit that you're nervous
While admitting to being nervous may make you look uncool, the truth is that the other person may be nervous as well, and talking about it will immediately give you something in common and break the ice. It's normal to be nervous on your first tranny date. If you can admit this to your trans date, it will make her think you are open and honest.
Ask a few simple questions
Ask your transgender dating some simple open-ended questions. Give your transgender date a chance to talk about themselves and make you look great because you're really interested in them. But keep a low profile. They don't want to appear to be under interrogation.
Don't lie
It's easy to fake things to make yourself look more impressive or achieve more, but if you get into a relationship, the truth will eventually come out and you won't look good. Lying is the most unwise thing to do. Many people may think that a proper exaggeration of facts can make a good impression on the trans date. But when the truth is out, your partner will only be very disappointed in you.
Don't ask about their salary
It's okay to talk about jobs, but don't force them to know how much money they take, whether they own a home or what kind of car they drive. You will only give the impression that you are a gold digger, which is not an attractive appearance. If you ask him a lot about money, chances are you won't have a second trans date.
Don't treat it like therapy
Be honest and open, but don't write them down in every detail of your relationship history. It takes time to get to know someone, and they don't need to see the dark, hidden corners of your mind.
Don't talk about your ex
Be sure to mention past relationships, but a first transgender date is an early way to get to know your ex. If you still feel the need to complain about them, ask yourself if it's too early to start dating transgender people.
Keep a positive attitude
Many people find it difficult to talk about themselves without laughing at themselves. This is nice and appealing, but don't confuse it with low self-esteem. Putting yourself down won't encourage your transgender date to find you attractive or fun.