The number of transgender people is increasing year by year, they are every where in our lives. They are your coworkers, your friends, your neighbors and even your lovers. Transgender is a special community that many people have misunderstanding on it. They are come from different backgrounds with different life experience. In fact, the life of transgender people is more colorful than most of ordinary people. They experienced two different lives, some of them even underwent transition surgery, that is a hard process for them.
Trans or transgender is a term to describe people with different gender identity from the gender they were born as. Misunderstanding on transgender people often misgendr them as gay or something else. Don't misgender transgender people, especially if you want to make friends with them. Many people don't really know about transgender people and transgender dating, so I can accept their misunderstanding on trans people. In fact, common ways for ordinary people to know trans and transgender people are movies and TV shows. What they know from moves is not always the real life of transgender people, I can say that most of information about transgender in movies is not the reality.
As the reality show is more and more popular, some transgender people attend reality show to share their life and even transition process with other people. In American, many transgender women become famous after attending reality show. While, transgender is still a hot topic. Followers of these reality shows never stop discussing about transgender women. In fact, some of them can really understand transgender women in these show, while others hold different opinions. By attending reality shows, some transgender women got frames, while social pressure comes with frames. They disclose themselves to other people, and they need to pay much attention to what the say and what they do especially in public places. Being transgender is never as easy as what you know. Life for transgender people who cannot be supported by their families and friends is even harder than other transgender people. I hope they can be understood by more and more people. The whole society should be more friendly to transgender people and ts dating as well.
I'm not a transgender person, but I can really understand their life. There are many challenges they need to face with in daily life. They are face with discrimination and misunderstandings from other people. Some people around them are even unfriendly to them. Another serious problem is that it is very difficult for transgender people to find their life partners. Most of transgender people are living alone without close friends and life partners. Most transgender people are friendly in life, because they want to make more new friends. While the world never friendly to them. Here, I hope all ordinary people can be friendly to all transgender people they meet in life. They are the same as everyone of us, they should be treated in an equal way. Making friends is a great experience, because I have many transgender friends and I know them very well.