Unlike finding a dating partner on these transgender dating sites, you are unable to make sure the date you find by other means is a transsexual or not. This won’t trouble you if you mean to look for a kinky dating partner. But if you are not, you need to find out how to judge whether you date is a transgender person or not or what you should do if your date is indeed a transsexual.
- You cannot distinguish it according to the appearance
First of all, you are unable to tell these transgender people from the straight ones. Apart from the reproductive organs, there is no difference between MTF and cisgender women. And although these transgender people have experienced transition surgery, you are unable to distinguish it either if the surgery has been operated a long time ago. This is the most important thing you need to bear in mind to avoid mistake these MTFs to cisgender women before a trans hookup.
- Don’t ask about the gender of your date directly
Even though you are not sure about the gender of your date, you still cannot pose the question directly. If your dating partner doesn’t care about it, that doesn’t matter. However, if your date wants to keep their gender as a secret and is not ready to disclose it to you, then your abrupt question may annoy your dating partner. They either shout abuse and pour the drink to your face or leave you directly.
You should know that if your trans hookup dates trust you enough, they will reveal their gender to you. While if they don’t do so, then that means they don’t feel safe telling you their gender. No matter they tell you or not, you are supposed to realize that they are not obliged to confess everything to you.
2. Erase your prejudice
Maybe you have a deep prejudice against transsexuals, but sometimes you don't even realize it. When you date a transgender person, your perception of them is influenced by your stereotype. Your perception of your current transgender partner does not stem from your date, but your previous impressions of other transgender people. This is your prejudice against transsexuals, which will destroy your relationship and trust. Therefore, you should eliminate the stereotype in your mind and create your date's image through his words and deeds. And you have to treat your ts date the way you treat other people.
3. Try to be an open-minded person
There is no need for you to meditate whether your trans hookup date is a transsexual or not. If he is, he will tell you at the appropriate time. If he isn’t, thinking a